A child with a learning difficulty can struggle with homework after a long day of school. This can be frustrating for both children and parents. To help your child – and you – avoid the headaches of getting through homework, it is best to create a plan that keeps them focused, and takes away the stress of homework.
Be Consistent
Provide your child with a set time and place to do homework. This creates a sense of control and predictability for children and for parents as well. While every family has their own preferences and afternoon schedules, you might consider giving your child enough time for a quick snack and then have him sit down to do his homework before he gets distracted with other activities. This method avoids all the excuses and complaints that happen later in the day as children get tired. You and your child will also have more free time without the added stress of unfinished assignments. Also, be sure that your child’s designated homework area has all needed supplies (sharpened-pencils, paper, calculator, water bottle, etc.) to avoid excuses for interrupting homework.
Approach the Most Difficult Assignments First
Children with learning disabilities tend to have short attention spans, particularly when it comes to challenging assignments. Have your child begin their most difficult assignments first since they will have more energy and focus to complete the task at hand. This will also encourage them to complete their other assignments, and to not avoid future work in that difficult subject.
Plan Shifts
If you see that your child is losing focus on one particular assignment, allow them to shift over to another and then come back to the original assignment. You can also set a timer every 15 to 20 minutes so that your child can look forward to breaks to recollect their thoughts. Be sure to time breaks as well. A long break can make completing homework even harder!!
Create a Homework Checklist
Checklists are a great way to keep your child organized and to help him remember each assignment. They can also be a great motivator as your child checks off each completed assignment. A child’s teacher should also be involved in the checklist and can help to let parents know what tasks are required each day. Some parents find a weekly email to the teacher helpful in knowing what is expected of the class each week.
Reward Hard Work
Set weekly homework goals that can easily be measure with a chart or other method. Having a simple reward system is a great external motivator and can be anything from being able to choose a weekend activity to even an ice cream cone! Avoid, extravagant rewards. Sometimes scheduling special “mommy-time” can be the best prize ever!
Be Encouraging
Parents feel obligated to correct every mistake on their child’s homework. Consider this approach: Have your child complete an assignment. Look it over. Praise what she did correct. And THEN, point out areas that she might have to redo. Or, offer to explain concepts that your child obviously did not understand. Praising before criticizing will make your child more willing to work towards the right answers.
Get Help from Brainjogging
Doing Brainjogging before starting homework can cut homework time in half. Many parents have seen that when students do Brainjogging, and then begin their assignments, they have greater focus and are able to complete their work more efficiently. In addition, adding vocabulary and key concepts to word lists in the Brainjogging program helps students remember and process new information quicker. The goal is to work SMARTER not HARDER!